🌟 Building Bridges, Not Walls

Connection is the heartbeat of progress.

When we create space for authentic conversations and meaningful collaboration, we unlock something powerful—a ripple effect of shared growth that reaches far beyond ourselves.

This year, my focus is clear: building bridges. Bridges between ideas, people, and opportunities. Bridges that help us grow stronger together.

What’s your focus for 2025?

I’d love to hear how you’re planning to connect with others or show up for your community this year.

Drop me a reply or share your thoughts—let’s build something incredible, one connection at a time.

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📚 Fueling the Fire: My Current Reads

Current obsession: The Let Them Theory

I’ll be honest—I’ve been driving myself crazy lately. The stress has been through the roof, and at times, I felt like I was about to become a full-blown monster. I’ve always believed my emotions were out of my control, and it’s been exhausting.

Then I started reading The Let Them Theory, and it’s been nothing short of a game-changer. Robbins dives into the idea of releasing control—letting people and situations be what they are, instead of what you think they should be. It’s not just freeing; it’s transformative.

For the first time, I feel like I have permission to stop trying to fix everything and everyone around me. I’ve been applying this mindset daily, and the result? Less stress, more peace, and a joy I haven’t felt in a long time. This book has set me free, and I couldn’t be happier.

Sometimes, the best thing we can do is simply let them—and in doing so, we let ourselves move forward.

Jackye Clayton holding "The Let Them Theory" by Mel Robbins at her desk.

Next up: Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel Pink

Why? I can already tell it’s going to shake things up. Pink challenges the idea that motivation is all about rewards—money, promotions, gold stars. Instead, he says the real drivers of success are autonomy, mastery, and purpose.

I’m curious to see how these ideas connect to my own goals for 2025—because big ambitions need more than just hustle. I want to explore how aligning these elements can create a life that feels fulfilling, not just productive.

If you’ve read it, let me know what you think! And if not, tell me—what’s on your reading list right now? I’m always up for swapping recommendations.

🏃‍♀️ The Gear That Gets Me Going

Consistency doesn’t just happen—it’s built. And for me, it starts with the right tools.

Strava and Nike Running Club are my go-to apps. They’re not just trackers—they’re accountability partners. Seeing my progress mapped out pushes me to lace up, even on the days I’d rather stay in bed. Every mile logged is a victory, no matter how small.

Lesson learned? Show up, even when you don’t feel like it. Some of my best runs happened on days I almost skipped. Discipline doesn’t wait for motivation—it thrives on action.

Actionable tip: Invest in running shoes that match your stride. I swear by Brooks sneakers for their support and comfort, especially during long runs. Combine that with layers of North Face gear for cold mornings, and you’re ready for anything.

Because showing up isn’t just half the battle—it’s the whole game.

Picture of Jackye Clayton and Kieran Snider at the
Pacific Beach Half Marathon

🎯 Building the Blueprint for 2025

This year is all about expansion with intention.

My focus? Elevating The People Puzzle Collective into a transformative hub for connection, learning, and collaboration. I want it to become more than a resource—it’s a movement. A space where ambitious minds come together to celebrate wins, tackle challenges, and redefine what success looks like in work and life.

How am I making this happen?

  • Launching new networking events designed to spark authentic conversations and ignite shared growth.

  • Curating exclusive content—insights, tools, and strategies you won’t find anywhere else.

  • Fostering a thriving community by amplifying your voices, your stories, and your impact.

But here’s the truth—this isn’t a solo journey.

I want to hear from you.

📩 What’s your big vision for 2025?💡 What challenges can we solve together?🌟 How can The People Puzzle Collective become your go-to resource for growth?

Reply to this email or join the conversation in our community space. Let’s make 2025 a year of connection, action, and unparalleled success.

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💡 The Power of Leading With Intention

Leadership isn’t about fixing every problem; it’s about creating the space where the best solutions can emerge.

I used to think being a leader meant having all the answers—projecting confidence no matter how uncertain I felt. But there came a point when the pressure to “have it all together” was burning me out. I was stressed, overwhelmed, and trying to force solutions where they didn’t fit.

That’s when I realized something transformative: it’s okay to let go.

Instead of trying to control every detail, I started approaching challenges with curiosity and trust. I stopped chasing perfection and started creating room for better outcomes to take shape naturally. The results have been life-changing: less stress, more clarity, and a deeper connection to what truly matters. True leadership isn’t about control—it’s about clarity and courage.

Practical Tip:

Start your next meeting with an open question. Not a statement. Not a directive.

Try:

  • "What’s one thing we could do differently?"

  • "What’s a challenge you’re facing right now?"

  • "How can I better support you?"

You’ll be amazed at what surfaces when you lead with curiosity instead of control.

A Quote to Inspire:

"Great leaders don’t set out to be leaders. They set out to make a difference. It’s never about the role; it’s always about the goal."

Whether you’re steering a team or influencing from the sidelines, remember: True leadership starts with intentionality.

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🌍 The Future of Work: Authenticity Over Everything

The workplace is no longer just about productivity—it’s about authenticity.

We’ve moved beyond cookie-cutter professionalism and robotic leadership. In a world reshaped by AI and automation, the spotlight is on what machines can’t replicate: human connection and genuine leadership.

Leaders who will thrive in 2025 aren’t the ones chasing perfection—they’re the ones showing up as their most authentic selves. They embrace vulnerability, lead with purpose, and create space for real connection.

This shift doesn’t require a map—it demands a mindset:

  • Build trust by being transparent.

  • Encourage collaboration by valuing diverse perspectives.

  • Focus on outcomes, not control.

Adaptation starts with one question: How can you lead authentically while empowering others to do the same?

The future of work isn’t something to wait for—it’s already here. The real question is: Are you ready to lead it with clarity and courage?

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🖤 Own Your Bold

Confidence isn’t just about how you show up—it’s the energy you carry. But let’s not lie: what you wear can amplify that energy.

This year, make bold moves with pieces that exude power and personality. A bubblegum pink patent leather bag? That’s not just an accessory—it’s a statement. My go-to? The Telfar Tote, aka the “Bushwick Birkin.” Stylish, versatile, and iconic, it’s the ultimate blend of function and fashion.

Telfar totes are back in stock on Amazon, and let me tell you, they’re more than bags—they’re moment makers. Whether you’re channeling Beyoncé energy (“This Telfar bag imported”) or showing up like the boss you are, these bags carry more than your essentials—they carry your vibe.

Serving bold looks and big vibes 💕 Bubblegum pink patent leather Telfar—because confidence deserves a statement piece

Beyond Style, Start with Care

Confidence begins long before you step out the door. Start your day with a 10-minute ritual:

  • Sip your coffee in silence.

  • Journal your intentions.

  • Meditate on the day ahead.

Those few moments of quiet? They’re where boldness is born.

Living Your Way

Confidence isn’t about being loud or quiet—it’s about being you. Whether you’re making bold statements with bubblegum pink patent leather or keeping it understated, the power is in showing up authentically.

It’s not about fitting into someone else’s idea of confidence. It’s about owning your choices, your voice, and your vibe—loud, soft, or somewhere in between. Be unapologetically you.

📣 Solvers & Shapers

Meet Vernice "FlyGirl" Armour—a trailblazer, powerhouse, and the FIRST African American female combat pilot.

FlyGirl doesn’t just break barriers; she shatters them. Through her electrifying talks and game-changing strategies, she empowers leaders to create their own "breakthrough moments" by embracing boldness, resilience, and action.

Her philosophy? "Acknowledge the obstacles, but don’t give them power."

FlyGirl embodies connection by fostering authentic conversations about grit and growth. She champions leadership by showing the world what’s possible when you combine intention with audacity. And her story of personal transformation pushes us all to level up—not just for ourselves, but for the communities we lead.

Ready to connect with FlyGirl’s mission? Explore her work at vernicearmour.com or follow her on social media for a daily dose of inspiration.

Let’s celebrate and learn from the people who prove what’s possible!

📝 Quote of the Week

"Growth isn't a gift; it's earned in the struggle."

This quote has been my mantra as I step into 2025.

We live in a world that celebrates polished endings but rarely spotlights the messy middle—the grit, the perseverance, the quiet moments when no one’s watching, and the doubts whisper louder than the cheers.

But here’s the truth: That struggle? That’s where the magic happens.

It’s where resilience is built. It’s where character is defined. And it’s where true growth takes root.

This week, I challenge you to embrace the struggle.

Lean into the hard things instead of avoiding them. Ask yourself: What lesson is this moment teaching me?

Because every stumble, every challenge, every ounce of effort—it’s all earning you the growth you’ve been searching for. ❤️ I love you! 🥰

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